Clayton Nelson

Clayton H. Nelson

Tuesday, November 30th, 1937 - Saturday, December 29th, 2018
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Clayton H. Nelson, 81, passed away at his home in Windsor on December 29, 2018 surrounded by his family.

Clayton was born November 30, 1937 in Lakota, ND to parents Lionel and Hilda Nelson.
He attended school in Whitman and Michigan, ND and then transferred to Lakota, ND for his last two years of high school where he met his wife, Ruth Johnson. He attended North Dakota State University for one year, and then married Ruth before enlisting in the Air Force in 1956. He was assigned to Mountain Home Air Force Base in Idaho for four years, with a temporary duty in Guam for four months.

After being discharged, they moved back to Lakota, where Clayton worked as a clerk for Lakota Farm Service, which also sold insurance. He liked the insurance business, so he decided to go full time as an agent for American Family Insurance in Langdon, ND. Two years later they moved to an agency in Grand Forks, ND. In 1965 he was promoted to District Manager in Minot, ND for the Northwest quarter of the state.

In 1969, Clayton was named the State Director for Kansas, and then was transferred to Denver, CO in 1973 to serve as the Colorado State Director. Eighteen months later he was appointed to the position of Regional Vice President of the Northwest Region in Minneapolis, MN covering a five state region. In 1985, Clayton was named Executive Vice President of Operations for American Family Insurance at their home office in Madison, WI. The companies reporting to him were Health, Life, Casualty, Farm and Ranch and Marketing.

In 1997, Clayton and Ruth retired to a ranch near Rye, CO where they raised calves in the summer and sold them in the fall. He belonged to the Lions Club there, and also the local tractor club. After a few winters of heavy snow, they moved to Windsor, CO to be closer to family.

Clayton started the Longs Peak Antique Tractor and Engine Association, whose membership was primarily north central Colorado. He restored Massey Harris and John Deere antique tractors, taking them to local fairs, farm shows and parades.

Clayton is survived by his wife of 62 years, Ruth, and five children: Lori (Monty) Careswell, Loveland, CO, Paul Nelson, Spokane, WA, Steve (Kelly) Nelson, Rio Rancho, NM, Linda (Philip) Lama, Windsor, CO and Mark Nelson, Littleton, CO. He is also survived by eleven grandchildren and four great grandchildren, as well as his brother Gordon Nelson of Lakota, ND and sister Hildegarde Reineke of Fargo, ND. He was preceded in death by his brother Laurence Nelson.

A memorial service is planned for 11 AM Thursday, January 3, 2019 at Bethel Lutheran Church in Windsor. A Luncheon will follow in the Parrish Hall immediately after the service. In lieu of flowers, the family has requested donations to be made in Clayton’s name to one of the following organizations: The National Pancreatic Cancer Foundation (NPCF), The Bethel Lutheran Church Youth Ministries in Windsor, CO or the Lakota, ND High School Future Farmers of America Chapter.
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  • Service

    Thursday, January 3rd, 2019 | 11:00am
    Thursday, January 3rd, 2019 11:00am
    Bethel Lutheran Church
    328 Walnut St.
    WINDSOR, CO 80550
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    Pastor David A. Pederson
  • Interment

    Lakota Cemetery
    LAKOTA, ND 58344


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Harvey Pierce

Posted at 10:24am
We are sad to learn of Clayton's death. Ruth and family our prayers and thoughts are with you. Fine peace and comfort in each other and knowing others loved Clayton as a man of loyalty, integrity and faith. Throughout all the years we worked with Clayton from the time he became the Regional Vice President in the Northwest Region until his retirement, he was our strongest advocate. Many times putting our interest above his own. We shall never forget Clayton and have many great memories. Harvey and Delores Pierce

Dave & Nancy Karstens

Posted at 02:32pm
Ruth and Family: Sorry for your loss. Clayton had a big impact on our lives and career. We'll miss him and cherish his memory. Best wishes Ruth!
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Gary and Laurie Perkins

Posted at 11:49am
Our hearts are broken.
Clayton was a mentor and friend for many years.
We share your grief.

Gary and Laurie Perkins

Jayne Fuhrman

Posted at 08:45am
Ruth, my sympathy to you and your family. Enjoyed our visits in Az.

The Zerzaneks

Posted at 01:41am
With deepest sympathy as you remember Clayton.
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